Comments on: Is nothing sacred anymore? http://chitty.wordpress.com/2007/09/12/is-nothing-sacred-anymore/ I blog, because I can write and you can read... or maybe not. Fri, 06 Nov 2009 13:29:28 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Diva-ubernadamoi http://chitty.wordpress.com/2007/09/12/is-nothing-sacred-anymore/#comment-16306 Diva-ubernadamoi Tue, 29 Jan 2008 16:14:56 +0000 http://chitty.wordpress.com/2007/09/12/is-nothing-sacred-anymore/#comment-16306 Dear new writer to me! Happy Birthday, wayyyyyyyyyyy belated!! What a dishonorable, or at the very least, insensitive situation. I empathize. Experience can be a cruel teacher, so how do we/I dicern when I have a true confidente-much less an elusive up to now, lover who won't "kiss and tell"?? - I find I say a lot of words meaning not much if I am concerned about this. I used to think I had good judgement into personal ethics, but simple things do matter. Anyways, Much in the line of greetings from Katrinaland. I was seeking the exact words and my mind could not just find that illusive, "slip of a tongue' effect of "where is THAT quote from my schooling" in watching Matt Damon in "The Good Shephard" - (intriging movie, my padre- was ex- "Information gathering" and was NOT debriefed after war....but, I again, trip aside your writings....pardon me! ) My memory is elusive. Is this small lovely group exclusive? (IF there is such a thing on the WWW?) An american girl- Divaubernadamoi! :) Pax and btw, I remember teaching a little art student who remind me in another way, of one step at a time with this retort- "Miss Angel! (My assigned by friends name) How do you eat an elephant? I responded, "I don't know, how" and the tiny giggling little girl of 2nd year in school in a very very dangerous area of a city responded with "One bite at a time....!!" Such wisdom in a child's elephant joke. I have tried to learn to listen much better. Dear new writer to me! Happy Birthday, wayyyyyyyyyyy belated!!

What a dishonorable, or at the very least, insensitive situation. I empathize.

Experience can be a cruel teacher, so how do we/I dicern when I have a true confidente-much less an elusive up to now, lover who won’t “kiss and tell”?? – I find I say a lot of words meaning not much if I am concerned about this. I used to think I had good judgement into personal ethics, but simple things do matter.

Anyways, Much in the line of greetings from Katrinaland. I was seeking the exact words and my mind could not just find that illusive, “slip of a tongue’ effect of “where is THAT quote from my schooling” in watching Matt Damon in “The Good Shephard” – (intriging movie, my padre- was ex- “Information gathering” and was NOT debriefed after war….but, I again, trip aside your writings….pardon me! )

My memory is elusive.

Is this small lovely group exclusive? (IF there is such a thing on the WWW?)

An american girl- Divaubernadamoi! :)

Pax

and btw, I remember teaching a little art student who remind me in another way, of one step at a time with this retort- “Miss Angel! (My assigned by friends name) How do you eat an elephant? I responded, “I don’t know, how” and the tiny giggling little girl of 2nd year in school in a very very dangerous area of a city responded with “One bite at a time….!!”

Such wisdom in a child’s elephant joke.

I have tried to learn to listen much better.

]]> By: livewire http://chitty.wordpress.com/2007/09/12/is-nothing-sacred-anymore/#comment-10246 livewire Wed, 19 Sep 2007 21:51:13 +0000 http://chitty.wordpress.com/2007/09/12/is-nothing-sacred-anymore/#comment-10246 Ah, happy belated birthday mister! I'd like to see that evening out caught on tape! =) As for joint emails - huge pet peeve. I was just thinking of that within the past few days and how I hate it. Accounts are free, geez~ Ah, happy belated birthday mister! I’d like to see that evening out caught on tape! =) As for joint emails – huge pet peeve. I was just thinking of that within the past few days and how I hate it. Accounts are free, geez~

]]> By: Pequeña Orquidea http://chitty.wordpress.com/2007/09/12/is-nothing-sacred-anymore/#comment-9956 Pequeña Orquidea Fri, 14 Sep 2007 15:11:47 +0000 http://chitty.wordpress.com/2007/09/12/is-nothing-sacred-anymore/#comment-9956 Chitty, Happy belated Birthday! It's true that nothing is sacred anymore! When I think of joint email accounts, I instantly think of the game pacman, as if the other significant one were chewing the last bit of individuality you could have left. Married does not mean share your friend's secrets! (haha I was more inclined to say "sordid life") Chitty, Happy belated Birthday! It’s true that nothing is sacred anymore! When I think of joint email accounts, I instantly think of the game pacman, as if the other significant one were chewing the last bit of individuality you could have left. Married does not mean share your friend’s secrets! (haha I was more inclined to say “sordid life”)

]]> By: chitty http://chitty.wordpress.com/2007/09/12/is-nothing-sacred-anymore/#comment-9931 chitty Fri, 14 Sep 2007 07:25:24 +0000 http://chitty.wordpress.com/2007/09/12/is-nothing-sacred-anymore/#comment-9931 <b>Guido</b>: Think of it this way... someone has to provide the entertainment. It just happens to be you! <b>Miss M</b>: I feel asleep on the doorstep once (years ago) after a particularly boozy party. I was still staying with the parents at the time. Mom was not happy especially as it was Sunday morning when they found me there. <b>Sugar</b>: HAHA... there is a difference between <i>intentionally</i> exposing yourself and <i>unintentionally</i> exposing yourself. Just ask Janet Jackson. Yeah... I'm chicken... lol. Guido: Think of it this way… someone has to provide the entertainment. It just happens to be you!
Miss M: I feel asleep on the doorstep once (years ago) after a particularly boozy party. I was still staying with the parents at the time. Mom was not happy especially as it was Sunday morning when they found me there.
Sugar: HAHA… there is a difference between intentionally exposing yourself and unintentionally exposing yourself. Just ask Janet Jackson.
Yeah… I’m chicken… lol.

]]> By: Siamese Twins « Little Miss Awkward http://chitty.wordpress.com/2007/09/12/is-nothing-sacred-anymore/#comment-9885 Siamese Twins « Little Miss Awkward Thu, 13 Sep 2007 11:34:46 +0000 http://chitty.wordpress.com/2007/09/12/is-nothing-sacred-anymore/#comment-9885 [...]  I was inspired to write this post by Chitty’s latest blog entry. Very early on during my stay in France, I met a really nice guy, who I would [...] [...]  I was inspired to write this post by Chitty’s latest blog entry. Very early on during my stay in France, I met a really nice guy, who I would [...]

]]> By: sugar007 http://chitty.wordpress.com/2007/09/12/is-nothing-sacred-anymore/#comment-9878 sugar007 Thu, 13 Sep 2007 10:05:27 +0000 http://chitty.wordpress.com/2007/09/12/is-nothing-sacred-anymore/#comment-9878 Happy Belated B'day greetings from me!! I want to know what 'intimate' things you shared with your friend (and his wife). I mean if she knows, I don't see why we can't, your business is already out there :-) Happy Belated B’day greetings from me!! I want to know what ‘intimate’ things you shared with your friend (and his wife). I mean if she knows, I don’t see why we can’t, your business is already out there :-)

]]> By: The Divine Miss M http://chitty.wordpress.com/2007/09/12/is-nothing-sacred-anymore/#comment-9874 The Divine Miss M Thu, 13 Sep 2007 09:25:17 +0000 http://chitty.wordpress.com/2007/09/12/is-nothing-sacred-anymore/#comment-9874 I never suffer from memory loss, that is my problem. I suffer from the same thing Chitty does where the next morning I attempt to black it out and on the morning commute I suddenly start cringing as I see what I was doing. hehehe Chitty - least you make it home in one piece with your clothes on, sometimes I don't ;) Or my housemate who discovered that she took a nap in the bushes on the walk home the other week and doesn't remember for how long. hahahaha I never suffer from memory loss, that is my problem. I suffer from the same thing Chitty does where the next morning I attempt to black it out and on the morning commute I suddenly start cringing as I see what I was doing. hehehe

Chitty – least you make it home in one piece with your clothes on, sometimes I don’t ;) Or my housemate who discovered that she took a nap in the bushes on the walk home the other week and doesn’t remember for how long. hahahaha

]]> By: Guido http://chitty.wordpress.com/2007/09/12/is-nothing-sacred-anymore/#comment-9872 Guido Thu, 13 Sep 2007 08:33:13 +0000 http://chitty.wordpress.com/2007/09/12/is-nothing-sacred-anymore/#comment-9872 I hate it when after a wild nite out I suffer from memory loss, especially when everyone else can recall perfectly what I got up to. A shared e-mail addy is looking for trouble where it does not exist. Relationships are complicated enough without the other person knowing EVERY detail of your life and that of your friends. It can only lead to resentment. I hate it when after a wild nite out I suffer from memory loss, especially when everyone else can recall perfectly what I got up to.
A shared e-mail addy is looking for trouble where it does not exist. Relationships are complicated enough without the other person knowing EVERY detail of your life and that of your friends. It can only lead to resentment.

]]> By: chitty http://chitty.wordpress.com/2007/09/12/is-nothing-sacred-anymore/#comment-9871 chitty Thu, 13 Sep 2007 08:03:49 +0000 http://chitty.wordpress.com/2007/09/12/is-nothing-sacred-anymore/#comment-9871 <b>Tripeak</b>: It was a helluvah interesting e-mail. All about my sordid past and how it is coming back to haunt me... hehe. Life's too short to be with one person? You want it all, don't you Tripeak? Bring it on, bru! <b>Bric</b>: I did, and it was not a take-out meal either. Went to a proper restaurant and ate until I felt they should call for the paramedics and the wheelchair. <b>IB</b>: Yeah, curiosity is a dangerous thing. And if you are anything like me, you will know that it is hard to pass up an opportunity, no matter how small. Not that I am malicious, but knowledge is power. <b>Miss M</b>: I am still getting flashbacks and find myself grabbing hold of my head and shaking it as if I could stop the "visions" from coming. It was a wild party (if you could call it that). On the plus side I got home in one piece with ALL my clothes on. How I got home....well, that is something I am still trying to figure out. <b>IITQ</b>: If anyone ever told me that I complete them, I would commit ritual suicide. Individuality is sometimes hard to maintain in a relationship, but it is absolutely vital that you do so. A fair amount of inter-dependence is ok, but when it becomes downright needy... it is time to move on and hide the <i>salami</i> somewhere else. Tripeak: It was a helluvah interesting e-mail. All about my sordid past and how it is coming back to haunt me… hehe.
Life’s too short to be with one person? You want it all, don’t you Tripeak? Bring it on, bru!
Bric: I did, and it was not a take-out meal either. Went to a proper restaurant and ate until I felt they should call for the paramedics and the wheelchair.
IB: Yeah, curiosity is a dangerous thing. And if you are anything like me, you will know that it is hard to pass up an opportunity, no matter how small. Not that I am malicious, but knowledge is power.
Miss M: I am still getting flashbacks and find myself grabbing hold of my head and shaking it as if I could stop the “visions” from coming. It was a wild party (if you could call it that). On the plus side I got home in one piece with ALL my clothes on. How I got home….well, that is something I am still trying to figure out.
IITQ: If anyone ever told me that I complete them, I would commit ritual suicide.
Individuality is sometimes hard to maintain in a relationship, but it is absolutely vital that you do so. A fair amount of inter-dependence is ok, but when it becomes downright needy… it is time to move on and hide the salami somewhere else.

]]> By: IITQ http://chitty.wordpress.com/2007/09/12/is-nothing-sacred-anymore/#comment-9852 IITQ Wed, 12 Sep 2007 21:05:49 +0000 http://chitty.wordpress.com/2007/09/12/is-nothing-sacred-anymore/#comment-9852 What's with this loss of individuality when married? On your favourite social networking platform, Facebook, it grates me how people put up pictures of them and their significant other as their profile picture. There is that cheesy line, "You complete me." Good grief, I take issue with that. If anyone ever says that to me I'd run for the hills. Which would you rather have - someone who doesn't need you but chooses you, or someone who is using you to fill a hole? Regarding the email, very uncool. Which is why I have a general rule that nothing related to feelings and emotion get shared by email. Not through having had details shared, but more because things in emails lack body language, etc. How many times do written words take on an unintended tone? So, I'll apply this to feelings emotion and personal details too. What’s with this loss of individuality when married?

On your favourite social networking platform, Facebook, it grates me how people put up pictures of them and their significant other as their profile picture.

There is that cheesy line, “You complete me.” Good grief, I take issue with that. If anyone ever says that to me I’d run for the hills. Which would you rather have – someone who doesn’t need you but chooses you, or someone who is using you to fill a hole?

Regarding the email, very uncool. Which is why I have a general rule that nothing related to feelings and emotion get shared by email. Not through having had details shared, but more because things in emails lack body language, etc. How many times do written words take on an unintended tone? So, I’ll apply this to feelings emotion and personal details too.

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